Soulful Love December 2002	Rev. Laurie Sue's Newest Book: "A Goddess is a Girl's Best Friend"
	by Rev. Laurie Sue Brockway

The Goddess Rocks!

Who knew there was a Goddess? Most women were not exactly raised to believe that within us is a divine power. Most of us were taught that divinity is found in men, in churches, and through clergy people. When we were growing up, we were more likely playing with Barbie Dolls than chatting about drawing inspiration from Divine Female role models who looked like us. When upset about something, broken hearted or confused, it is unlikely anyone around your house suggested that you connect with the "Goddess within."

Many of us have come to know "Goddess" as the title bestowed on 1950’s Divas of the screen or as women who embody an astounding physical beauty that most of us could never hope to emulate. Yet some of us recall our earliest experience with Goddesses in high school social studies, where we studied mythology. Even though some of the classical Greek and Roman mythology painted divine women as conniving -- and even a bit masculine -- in their approach, the tales of titan beings with super powers gave us our first glimpse of divine feminine power: The independent Artemis … The brilliant war strategist Athena … the harbinger of victory Nike … the seductive and alluring Venus. Without us even giving it much thought, they have all been integrated into our culture, and accepted as symbols of female prowess – cool women who make up their own rules!

Many modern women want to learn how to make up their own rules and confidently follow the call of their hearts. Many dream of creating lives of their own making and living them joyously, without apology. We all need role models to pave the way. And there are many awesome archetypes and mythic women that can be meaningful role models because they look like us and have traits we want to emulate – and stories that we, as women, can relate to.

There are thousands of Goddesses, from so many of the world’s cultures, known by different names and images, which represented feminine aspects of divinity and also aspects of our humanity. They’re wild and mild, powerful and soft, compassionate and passionate; they’re virgins and queens, mothers and daughters, rulers of the universe who can transform the planet, nurse a baby and love their consorts simultaneously. Their images, energy and just the mere concept of female divinity can heal us, empower us, instruct us and help us find our way on life’s rocky path. They give us permission to be all we can be.

That’s why the Female Divine is a fabulous role model for women today. She’s got powers in the world, and she is connected to all that is. She’s got attitude, she’s got sass, and she’s got presence. The Goddess rocks. She does things her way. She is source of her own power. In conjunction with the creative force in the universe that makes things happen, we are too!

Without even realizing it, many of us stumble onto our own inner Goddess during a time of crisis, great need or pain, or during moments of extraordinary passion, and full out participation in life. We find her when we call upon the great reserve of power that lies within us to get through a tough experience. We discover her when we find love and feel love, and walk around open hearted and happy. We come across her in the course of trying to make ourselves stronger, fitter, happier, and more successful in life.

We see her emerge in our dreams, in our passionate desire to make dreams real and then in the moments of perseverance and victory when we truly go for it in life!

It makes practical sense to identify our own Goddess nature and consciously strengthen it. Women who make their mark in this world share an important trait – they have learned how to access their own true power. While some women have gone about it the way men tackle the world, there are other’s who have mastered the art of tapping into the Goddess within. How do they do it? They take on challenges with a certain grit and determination … they strive toward a higher state of high self-esteem … and they consciously evolve their lives with a sense of divine entitlement, a "Goddess Consciousness" that empowers them to feel worthy, entitled and destined for success… and hence, they create magnificent lives! Halle Berry … Jennifer Lopez … Julia Roberts … Venus and Serena Williams … Oprah Winfrey … all in their own unique way, Goddesses -- all Modern Day Goddesses who each embody a different aspect of the feminine divine.

A Goddess In Human Form embodies, and consciously pursues, some of the following traits: She:

• Is focused, dedicated, passionate and not afraid to pursue her dreams.
• Even when she is afraid, she does it anyway and calls upon a deeper reserve of inner power to move forward with goals and dreams.
• Knows that accomplishment without spirit is not as rewarding as a life that is successful and soulful.
• Seeks a balance between material and spiritual accomplishments.
• Is of service to others and understands that giving in many ways is the same as receiving, and that when we help others we are empowered and made stronger.
• Has come to learn that power is not external, or something you seize from the outside world. It starts within.
• Honors the men in her life, and the gifts that they bring, and desires partnership based on soulful and sacred loving.
• Fiercely adores and protects her children, the ones she loves and the things she believes in.
• Champions other women and honors female friendship.
• Celebrates women’s real power, and recognizes a connection to the divine, or the creative power of our universe, even if she does not call it Goddess.
• Is honest with herself, and those around her.
• Most importantly, she is true to her own heart and follows the call of her soul.

We all begin our lives as divine beings, our souls brought onto this earth from no less a place than the heavens. Thus, we are divine in nature … its just that we sometimes forget. Now is time to remember. None of us can expect to connect to the true source of our power until we understand that we are truly made in the image of the divine, created in the image of a Creator who must look like us, if we look like Her! At the very least, let us entertain the idea that just as we come into this world in the image of and with the characteristics of our human parents, we are also blessed with the same from our Divine Parents.

Men have always been raised with images and pictures of divinity that have instilled confidence in them and made them feel connected to God; and have made them feel and act like Gods. And women just have not had that advantage. We have to create it, now.

Connecting to the Goddess is a direct route to the Goddess within. When we find her, we find our truest power. Women need a Goddess mirror we can hold up and look into, an image that confirms our own divinity and empowers us to be all that.

© Copyright 2002 Reverend Laurie Sue Brockway  All Rights Reserved. 

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Rev. Laurie Sue Brockway is an interfaith minister who is often called upon to teach, speak and write about women’s spirituality and The Feminine Faces of God. She is author of, A GODDESS IS A GIRL’S BEST FRIEND: A DIVINE GUIDE TO FINDING LOVE, SUCCESS AND HAPPINESS, from Perigee Books, December 2002.

For more information:
Website: www.GoddessFriends.com or to join "The Goddess List" for inspirational and informational electronic message, Email: GoddessLaxmi@aol.com

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